Perfect Gift for kids of all ages

I’m having an internal struggle this year with Christmas gifts.  I’ve been reading a lot of books about consumerism and living with less and de-cluttering and buying things of real value and on and on and on.  And I’d really like to tone it down a little for Christmas.  Which is hard because I LOVE Christmas shopping and buying meaningful gifts for people.  But I’m also super sick of picking up crap everywhere.  And my kids definitely do NOT need more toys.

 

A few years ago I gave each of my kids a photo album for Christmas filled with pictures of just them.  Each kid got their own album full of pictures I had taken of them throughout the past few years.  Many of those pictures they’d never seen before.  That was before I started the picture display movement. I felt like I could start my own movement.  So I did.  Now they see many of the photos I take of them.

 

They loved those albums.  And still look at them often.  And each of them at different times have let me know they need more photos for another album.

 

So this year I decided to do something similar, but better.  Each of my four kids will get an album, some Project Life cards to “jazz” it up a little, Project Life journaling cards so they can write about the photos, their own pen, and a stack of pictures they are in.  The album won’t be assembled.  They’ll be able to assemble it themselves, put the photos where they want, add whatever filler cards they want, journal as much or as little as they want and end up with their own finished album full of their personality.  My 4 year old can’t write much yet, but it will be fun to have at least a few journaling cards with his handwriting even if it’s just his name.  I will probably assemble the album for my 3 year old this year.

 

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You can get a full 12×12 size album or a mini 6×8 album along with some sheet protectors.

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If you buy one full Core kit, several kids can use the same kit.  I’m planning to let them have access to several of the kits I already have. But if you don’t have any, you can probably just buy one (with a 40% off coupon to Michaels or Hobby Lobby) and spread it out for several kids to use.

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Each kid gets a stack of their own photos.  The amount will vary depending on the size of album you plan to use.  I print them all as 4×6’s and then you can cut them down to fit some of the 3×4 spots (I lay one of the journaling cards over the photo so I know where to cut to make it the right size).  I print these either at Costco or York photo online.  Or just google 4×6 prints and find somewhere running a sale.  (For more info on where to print your photos click here).

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Then each kid will end up with their own completed album!

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Besides the obvious benefit of them having a book full of pictures of themselves, this gift has other perks.  It will take them some time to get it assembled and completed.  Which hopefully means they’ll take better care of it and appreciate it more.  And keep them busy.

I also hope it will teach them the value of documenting life at an early age and appreciating the value of the stories we can tell through photographs.

 

This will obviously take a little effort on my part (and your part if you decide to do it).  And it’s a lot easier if your photos are already organized (which you can do in less time than you probably fear).  But I think it’s definitely worth the time and effort.

Steps to get it done:

Sort through all my photos and “flag” photos of a specific kid using iPhoto.  Then I put those photos in a folder to print.  And do the same for each kid.

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Buy an album for each kid and a core kit (if you don’t already have one).  When buying Project Life stuff, I use 40% off coupons at Michaels or Hobby Lobby.  Amazon also does sales as well as Becky Higgins direct site.

 

A gift that matters, has value, and I don’t have to pick up off the floor 8 million times….hopefully.

 

Do YOU have any gifts you give your kids that have value and meaning?  I’d love to hear about them in the comments.  I’m always on the lookout for better more meaningful gifts.

Videos to lift the soul

I hear people bag on Facebook a lot.  Which I understand.  But my usual response when people say Facebook makes them feel bad is “You’re following the wrong people”.  That and “don’t ever read the comments”.  Why do people think the comment sections in Facebook are a space they can say whatever they want without regards to the human people they’re hurting on the other end?  Facebook comments are usually a breeding ground for Satan’s army.  Just don’t read them.

 

The truth is, there are (and can be) a LOT of good things on Facebook.  Like these videos I’m sharing below.  All things friends of mine shared on Facebook.  We can and MUST use the Internet for good!

 

These are sure to lift the soul and inspire us to create a better day!!  Definitely worth watching.

For more inspiration, check out these TED talks definitely worth listening to!

Elite Blog Academy

I didn’t start this blog with the sole intent of making money.  Though that would sure be nice because it turns out blogging takes boat loads of time, I really just want to make this a place that is 100% helpful.  My intent right now is to simply build a community.  A community of people who want to live better lives.  And with that in mind, I still want to make this blog a good experience.  Easy to navigate and use. Packed with information people want to spend their time reading.

 

I was looking for ways to make this blog better in every way and I stumbled upon the Elite Blog Academy.  I’m not one to make a quick decision, especially when it comes to spending money, but I felt like this would be a good move for me–something that would move me in the direction I want to go.  So after stewing about it for one day, I signed up.

I don’t imagine there are a lot of bloggers who read this blog, but if there are, I highly highly HIGHLY recommend signing up for this course.

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I don’t want to bore all my non-blogging readers with a ton of the details.  But.  Ruth (the designer of the course) is genuine, kind, and incredibly helpful.

I’m not even all the way through the course yet and I already think it’s underpriced for the value I’ve gotten from the course.  Two simple tricks alone have increased my blog traffic (and income) exponentially.  And the Unit on Pinterest and the Facebook group (which has now been converted into the forum) alone are worth the money.  But then there are 11 other units packed with so much information, tons of bonus material, and several live webinars to ask questions.  As well as e-mail access for any additional questions.

 

I definitely went into blogging a bit naive.  I had NO IDEA how much work was involved.  But Ruth walks you through it all, step-by-step, and shows you all the possibilities with blogging.  Which are truly endless.

She holds nothing back, will answer any questions, and tell you ANYthing you want to know.   And the wealth of knowledge from the other bloggers taking the course is truly priceless.  So many people willing to help.

 

This course is for bloggers of ALL levels.  Beginners (like me) all the way to seasoned bloggers (some in the course right now have been blogging for 7+ years and have 500,000+ page views a month).

And, there’s a 100% money-back guarantee if you don’t like the course for any reason.  Which you won’t need.  Trust me.

 

You can read ALL about the course, what it has to offer and what it can do for you by clicking on this link:

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But you have to act FAST.  Registration goes up $100 after December 5th.  So if you’re looking to make your blog a better experience for your readers, jump on this.  Now.  Seriously.  Trust me.  It’s that good.

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HUGE Giveaway to people in need. 7 photographers. 7 free photo sessions.

I’m always looking for ways to use my photography skills to help other people.  Especially people who are in great need.  I wanted to give away a Funbooth session but wanted to make sure it went to someone who otherwise wouldn’t be able to do it (for whatever reason–financial or otherwise).  And then I thought it would be cool to team up with some other photographers who feel the same way I do about using photography to bless others and have them give away a session as well.

 

I’m super excited to announce this HUGE GIVEAWAY.

I’ve teamed up with seven ridiculously talented photographers in Utah and we’re each giving away a photo session to different families in need.

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{This graphic was designed by the talented Jess Kasteler.  You can find her website here and on Instagram here.  THANK YOU Jess!!!}

 

Here’s how it works.  You’ll see all 7 photographers listed below with the TYPE of family they’re giving a session away to.

The way to win a session–nominate someone you know who fits the category for the photographer giving away that session.  Or, nominate yourself (if you fit that category).  That’s it!  No rules.  No following or “liking” (unless of course you want to).  No requirements.

 

When you find the photographer giving away the type of session you want to nominate someone (or yourself) for, send an e-mail to greatgiveaway17@gmail.com  In the subject title put the NAME OF THE PHOTOGRAPHER who is doing the type of session you are nominating for (please don’t forget to do this so it’s easier to sort the e-mails).  Then in the e-mail, give a brief description of who you want to nominate and why.

 

The Giveaway starts TODAY (November 26th) and will end on Sunday, December 7th at 11:59 pm (MST).  

 

At the end of the Giveaway, each photographer will choose which family to give the session to and will contact the person who nominated them.  If you nominated yourself, they’ll e-mail you directly to set up the session.  If you nominated someone else, they will let you know and you can give the session to the person if you want, or the photographer can e-mail that person and let them know they won the session.  You can remain anonymous for nominating if you would like, OR you can be the one to give them the session if your family is chosen.

 

**Please note, I am giving away a Funbooth session and the rest of the photographers are giving away a mini-session.  All sessions must be redeemed between January and July of 2015.  Specific details (when, where, etc.) will be coordinated with each individual photographer. **

 

THE PHOTOGRAPHERS AND SESSIONS

 

1.  JEN FAUSET at Fauset Photography.

You can find her website here and Instagram here

Giving a session to a family with a child with cancer OR a terminal illness.

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2.  JESS BISHOP at Photography by Jess

You can find her website here and Instagram here

Giving a session to a family who has been down on their luck.  Someone struggling for whatever reason who could use a fun family photo session.

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3.  SARA BOULTER at Sara Boulter Photography

You can find her website here and Instagram here

Giving a session to a single parent with their kids.

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4.  LINDSAY ROSS (that’s me!) at Lindsay Ross Photography and Blog

You can find me here where you already are 🙂 and Instagram here.  You can read more about Funbooth sessions here.

Giving a session to a family trying to adopt OR a family who has adopted a child in the past year.

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5.  EMILY LOWE at Emmy Lowe Photo

You can find her website here and Instagram here

Giving a session to a single mom in school

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6.  TRACY LAYNE at Tracy Layne Portraits

You can find her website here and Instagram here

Giving a session to a family who has struggled with infertility.  Someone going through IVF, adoption, or something similar.

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7.  SHELLY GELLER at Shelly Geller Photography

You can find her website here and Instagram here

Giving a session to a family who has someone with a terminal illness OR a family who has lost a child.  

Shelly lost her son and understands how difficult family photos can be when a member of your family isn’t physically there.

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If you know a family who fits any of these categories, please take five minutes and nominate them by following the directions above. I’m sure they’ll be grateful.  You can nominate as many people as you want.  If you know others who would be interested in this giveaway, please forward them the link!!

We’re all hoping this will be a great opportunity to help someone truly in need.

 

**This Giveaway is now closed**

 

Have an awesome Thanksgiving break and Holiday season and thank you sincerely for coming here to read the things I have to say.  I appreciate you being here.

from the wife of a using addict

If you haven’t read the first post I did about addiction, I recommend you read that first HERE so you understand why I’m posting these articles.

This is written by the wife of an addict who is still in the trenches of fighting addiction on a daily basis.  Still using.  Still lying.  Daily struggling.  And she waits.  And hopes.  And endures as much as she can to keep her family together and support the man she loves. She’s nothing short of incredible.  Stay strong my friend.  I see you and I have all the compassion in the world.

These are “the neighbors next door”.  The family you wouldn’t suspect has an addiction problem.  You truly never know what the people around you are going through.  And if you don’t think you personally know an addict, I promise you do.  You just don’t know it.

Here we go:

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“When someone is diagnosed with a disease or an illness, it’s tragic and sad. People gather around and try to ease the burdens of that person and their family. They hold fundraisers and gatherings to lift their spirits. With the disease of addiction it is a little different. You don’t usually find people at your door with a casserole in hand.

People often think the person with addiction problems is the guy on the corner holding a sign, or the homeless man on the streets. In fact, it is your neighbor, church member, friend, sibling, parent, child and even your spouse.

My name is Lindsey and my husband is an addict. My world is a little different than others, (although we all have our trials.) It can be a life of uncertainty. You never know where your life will be in a year, or a month, or even the next day. There is no “fix” for this illness. You never know when it will pop up again. It is always lurking around just waiting for the addict to get weak. As the spouse you can’t fix it, change it, make someone better, or love them enough to make them well.

Some days there is peace and things are good and life is hopeful. Other days I feel like I am going crazy with questions going through my mind like, is my husband really sober today? Is that money he withdrew from the ATM really for lunch?  Is he really going to the gym, or am I going to get a phone call today that he’s in trouble? Is he going to die from this?

You don’t talk to people because they judge, give advice, and gossip.

It can be lonely sometimes when you are in the thick of things. I have found myself sitting on my bathroom floor wondering what I should do but, knowing there is nothing I can do. I cry, I get up, I take care of the kids, I clean the house, and I face another day because there is nothing else to do. I get scared, I feel utter fear, I worry, and I pray…….a lot! I pray that he will stay sober, he won’t hate himself, he won’t get hurt, and he won’t die. I pray for my family, for my kids, and for my own sanity. I pray to know how long I fight until I have to walk away.

I know in my heart my husband doesn’t want this illness just as much as I don’t want him to have it. He wants to be free from it but, it never leaves. We educate ourselves, we get support and we keep going a day at a time.

I know that it’s not an easy life but, I have learned so much from going through it. I have learned not to judge others, to be patient, to love, to be sensitive, and to have faith in God. I know that no matter what He will be there to sustain me.

I have an amazing husband who loves his kids, works hard for his family and is trying every day to stay clean. He might not always succeed but, he is fighting. I am grateful for that. I am grateful he is still in my life, that he is working hard to be the husband he so much desires to be. I am grateful for family who support us, friends who love me, and my beautiful family who I will continue to fight for everyday!”

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