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Category: utah photography
The “every day”
When I started doing photography it was 100% for the money. Not because I was passionate about photography or shutter speeds or f-stops. Not because I was artistic or creative and I needed an outlet. Not because I had a “good eye” or was naturally talented at taking pictures. I saw an opportunity to make money (which I like) photography sports (which I LOVE) so I went for it.
My perspective when I first started as a photographer and my perspective now are radically different.
The truth is, I still don’t take pictures because I’m passionate about photography. I take pictures because I’m passionate about the people IN the pictures. And the stories of their lives.
When I learned how to take pictures of people (not just sports), I knew my style wouldn’t be typical. I quickly started to learn how powerful a photograph can be. Sounds dramatic, but it’s true. A photograph can be more than just a photograph. A photograph can show a persons soul. It has the ability to tell the world who someone IS. And that’s not a small thing.
As my style developed as a photographer, my mission became to focus on personality and relationships. To have emotion in my photographs. To tell, without words, who someone is.
“Sometimes a perfect memory can be ruined if put to words“ Nova Ren Suma
I attended a seminar where another photographer said “The power we possess to bring out someone’s inner most soul is an art form. We allow people to see pas their insecurities and see who they really are.” I believe that.
This has completely changed the way I take pictures of my own children. And the importance I give to the photographs I take (and display) of them.
As a parent, one of my main goals is to allow my children to be who they already are. Images are one way I can help them discover who that is. Photography has become a tool in my life to help me be a more intentional, present, and aware mom. To appreciate my children more. To be aware of who they are and who they are becoming. To document their lives. The good AND the bad. And to document our families story.
Photography has given me more patience. More love. More compassion. More awareness. And most importantly, more intention to live a purposeful life. That’s why it’s SO important to me and why I want to share that gift with other people.
It’s the every day stuff. What they do from day to day that show who they are. So in my opinion, the pictures I take of my kids in my own home are by far the most important kind.
“Photography is a gift because it allows us to see the beauty in what can feel routine and mundane.” Ashley Campbell.
The EVERY DAY
“The mom stays in the picture”
To all moms.
If you read nothing else in your lifetime (besides God’s scriptures), please, please, puhlease, read this:
“The mom stays in the picture“
I can’t expound too much, because she says it so perfectly. But. I always have something to say.
We send messages to our kids all the time. Intentionally and not intentionally. They’re always watching. Always listening. And always paying attention whether we think they are or not. They say moms have eyes on the back of their heads. Well kids have ears on every inch of their body. And eyes that see and then mimic what they see.
What is the message we send to our kids, girls and boys, when we won’t get in pictures? How do they interpret that?
We tell them to love themselves. To be happy with who they are. To know they are a literal child of God and their soul is worth something. We say, say say. Tell, tell, tell. But what do we DO? What do our actions say to our kids? Because that’s where they’re getting the real message. From what I do. Not usually what I say.
I get it. It’s not always fun to be in a picture. Especially when we’re tired, bloated, feeling gross, and on and on and on. For me, I don’t love asking other people to take a picture of me. I just don’t. It feels weird and kind of embarrassing (even if it’s my own husband). “Hey, I’m awesome, take a picture of me.” But I’m getting SO much better at it. Because I think it is so so so important for our kids to see pictures of us. WITH them. Being a part of their lives. No matter how we look or feel. Because they don’t care. They just want us. Just the way we are.
And now that nearly all of us have smart phones with built in cameras and self-timers, there’s NO excuse!! Stay in the picture moms!!!
2 simple tips to dramatically improve your photos
If you look at most pictures that just aren’t good, there is generally one reason why.
They’re blurry. Out of focus. Fuzzy. Whatever you want to call it.
There are a few things that make pictures blurry.
1. The photographer didn’t hold the camera steady enough (camera shake)
2. There wasn’t enough light
So here’s how you fix it.
1. Hold your elbows up against your body when you take a picture. You may feel (and possibly look) ridiculous but who really cares. This is especially a problem when we take pictures with our phones. Because we extend our arms and hold the camera out. I don’t know about you, but my arms aren’t strong enough to keep the camera completely still. Thus, camera blur.
So tuck those elbows in by your body. Or lean against a wall. Or use a tripod (because you probably just have one of those in your back pocket).
2. Find more light. Good light is THE KEY in almost all situations to a good photograph.
Go outside (assuming it’s not night of course), go by a window, open a door. Find the light. If you let more light into the camera, it is able to “freeze” the action and make our pictures “sharp” (in focus) instead of blurry.
And tada. Better pictures. So quit whippin your camera around when taking photos and find the light. Light is good.