Five books you don’t want to miss

I’m what some people might call a book junkie. I like books. A lot. I read. A lot. I think many people have their “thing.” That thing they’re willing to spend money on (over and over and over). For some people it’s shoes, or hoodies, or kitchen gadgets, or tech-stuff. For me, it’s books. Yes, I know I can get them for “free” at the library (we won’t go into late fees for over-due library books–my library books are never free), but I just like to buy them. Have them for my own.  I have no explanation why but I imagine there are a few of you out there who know exactly what I mean.

I’m not being dramatic when I say reading books changes my life. Words have power. Books have power. And I’m a better person from the books I read.

I used to think I’d never adapt to reading on my phone (or Kindle, or iPad). I like the feel of a book in my hands, the smell of pages from a new book. But truth be told, I’m a HUGE fan of the Kindle app on my phone. And have found myself purchasing books through Amazon delivered straight to my Kindle as my go-to book solution for a few reasons. One, I get the book immediately. Amazon prime is great and all, but it doesn’t beat immediate. Two, the Kindle version of a book is generally a few dollars cheaper (and every now and then you can score great deals and find $1.99 versions of Kindle books). And three, you can highlight in the Kindle app and then go to the amazon website and just pull up the parts of the book you highlighted (probably my favorite reason for going Kindle–I highlight. A lot).

Enough about Kindle. Let’s get on to some books. One of my favorite quotes from Glennon Doyle Melton: “Reading is my inhale. Writing is my exhale.” I couldn’t agree more. And “Reading makes you smarter.” I don’t know who said that, but I know without a doubt it’s true.

And let’s not forget good old Dr. Seuss.

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That Dr. Seuss knows his stuff.  And I’m all about going places.  Travel all day every day please.

Today I just wanted to share some of the books I’ve read (and loved) recently and a few quotes I picked out while reading some of them. It’s a random assortment of reading material, but that’s kinda how I roll. Randomly. {You can see my list of 13 books that will inspire better, more meaningful lives HERE.}

1. Tattoos on the Heart: The Power of Boundless Compassion by Gregory Boyle.

It’s safe to say this is one of my ALL TIME FAVORITE books. It’s one of those “everyone should have to read this” kind of books. Gregory is a man who devotes his time to helping young boys get out of gangs. Incredible story. Incredible compassion. Incredible example. Oh my word I love this book. Definitely one not-to-miss.

“We must “trust in the slow work of God.” Ours is a God who waits. Who are we not to? It takes what it takes for the great turnaround. Wait for it.”

“We have grown accustomed to think that loving as God does is hard. We think it’s about moral strain and obligation. We presume it requires a spiritual muscularity of which we are not capable, a layering of burden on top of sacrifice, with a side order of guilt. (But it was love, after all, that made the cross salvific, not the sheer torture of it.)”

“How do you work with the poor?” She answered, “You don’t. You share your life with the poor.” It’s as basic as crying together. It is about “casting your lot” before it ever becomes about “changing their lot.”

2. Resilience: Hard-Won Wisdom for Living a Better Life by Eric Grietens

I feel like I high-lighted nearly this entire book. A former navy-seal giving his friend (struggling with addiction) advice about life and resilience. This books is full of so much wisdom and straight up good life counsel. So so good.

“Everyone has a place where they encounter fear, where they struggle, suffer, and face hardship. We all have battles to fight. And it’s often in those battles that we are most alive: it’s on the frontlines of our lives that we earn wisdom, create joy, forge friendships, discover happiness, find love, and do purposeful work. If you want to win any meaningful kind of victory, you’ll have to fight for it.”

“We build resilience in our lives, we come to see that pain is not something to be eliminated so that we can have joy, any more than fear is something to be eliminated so that we can have courage. Courage overcomes, but does not replace, fear. Joy overcomes, but does not replace, pain.”

3. The Nightingale by Kristin Hannah

This is a historical fiction book so I didn’t highlight much, but this book was one of those can’t put it down, stay up WAY too late reading it kind of books. It’s been a long time since I’ve read a book I enjoyed this much. I got really attached to the characters and cried at the end (I never cry in books. Ever). This is my “recommend to everyone” book right now.

4. 7: An Experimental Mutiny Against Excess by Jen Hatmaker

If you haven’t read something by Jen Hatmaker, you’re missing out. She’s a brilliant writer, but she’s also hilarious! I’m on a slow-the-heck-down and GET RID of excess kick lately (like, I want to get rid of eeeerything) so I really enjoyed this one. I’m working my way through all of Jen Hatmaker’s books. She’s worth paying attention to.

“It gets fuzzy once you spend time with people below your rung. I started seeing my stuff with fresh eyes, realizing we had everything. I mean everything. We’ve never missed a meal or even skimped on one.
I was so blinded I didn’t even know we were rich.”

“I’m going to bed tonight grateful for warmth, an advantage so expected it barely registers. May my privileges continue to drive me downward to my brothers and sisters without. Greater yet, I’m tired of calling the suffering “brothers and sisters” when I’d never allow my biological siblings to suffer likewise. That’s just hypocrisy veiled in altruism. I won’t defile my blessings by imagining that I deserve them. Until every human receives the dignity I casually enjoy, I pray my heart aches with tension and my belly rumbles for injustice.”

With my love and compassion for the homeless (and less fortunate) these next two are my FAVORITE:

“It’s almost like Jesus meant what He said. When you’re desperate, usually the best news you can receive is food, water, shelter. These provisions communicate God’s presence infinitely more than a tract or Christian performance in the local park. They convey, “God loves you so dearly, He sent people to your rescue.”

“I guess that’s why “love people” is the second command next to “love God.” And since God’s reputation is hopelessly linked to His followers’ behavior, I suspect He wouldn’t be stuck with His current rap if we spent our time loving others and stocking their cabinets.”

5.  Between Shades of Gray by Ruta Sepetys

Not to be mistaken with that other Gray book, this is another historical fiction novel that I loved.  It’s a story about Lithuanians who were forcibly relocated when Russia took over during WWII.  Again I got really attached to the characters and found it super interesting to learn about a part of history I’d never heard about (and I was a history major in college).

 

Books. They’ll change your life. I can promise you that! And these are five you definitely don’t want to miss.

Any books you’ve read recently you’d like to share? I’m always looking for good book recommendations!

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Tips for staying current with your photo documenting.

I’ve never stayed current taking photos and getting them printed from year to year.  Truth is, I’ve never tried.  Last year I really started to focus on being more intentional about the type of photos I take and getting them printed and into albums so we can actually SEE the photos and relive the emotions of the memories.

I think about this quote all the time: “When you have a printed picture, it forces you to slow down and have an emotional experience with that memory.” (Check out this video of the “dreadlock dad” who scrapbooks–love it)

This is the first year I’m planning to stay current month-t0-month and come December 31st, I’ll have a fully completed album for the year.  So far, so good.  I’m current right now and can already say how much I love this approach.  I thought I’d share some of my tips with you to help YOU make an effort to take the right kind of photos, print them, and stay current with your photo album this year (we’ll talk about past years a little later in this post).

Here’s the approach:

**I’m using the Project Life App to make my album pages.  If you’ve been around here for a while, you already know my love for the App.  If you’ve never heard of the App, check out this post and this post to see how easy it is to use.  This will be my ticket to staying current this year.  It’s SO easy to use and I can do it ANYwhere, ANYtime.  No stuff.  No fluff.

**I’m documenting week-to-week and doing one spread (so two pages) per week.  If we do something special, there’s a holiday/birthday, or we go on vacation (please please let there be lots of that this year), there will be more than one spread for that week.  This is totally flexible, but generally speaking, one spread per week is adequate to cover what happened without being overwhelming and including more than needs to be included (aka, people eventually want to gauge their eyes out looking at it if there’s too much).

Here are the spreads I’ve done since the year started:

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I probably won’t include a “Week 1, week 2, week 3…” card in each spread but in some of them I will.  (Those cards are from the 2016 Project 52 kit in the Project Life App

**Each Sunday night, I sort through the photos I’ve taken that week, pick the ones I want to put in the spread, and create the spreads on the Project Life App.  This process takes a total of about 20 minutes.  20 minutes per week and by the end of the year, I’ll have a completed album.  The key is setting aside the time each week to just DO IT.  Pick a day and hold yourself to doing it that day. If you have a hard time getting motivated to DO things you know you really want done, read this post.  It helps me SO much to stay motivated to get things done (ANY things).

**The HUGE advantage to doing a spread each week is the journaling.  It’s obviously easier to remember what went on that week if you journal about it that week.  As I’m playing catch-up on previous years, journaling is much harder because my memory is terrible and I usually can’t remember many details or specifics about what we did or what went on.  I’m grateful I at least have a ton of photos to help us remember, but journaling definitely helps document some of the things the camera can’t capture.  And if you checked out those posts I mentioned earlier about the app, you can use Siri to do your journaling which saves a TON of time rather than trying to type on itty bitty keys with your thumbs.

This year I’m also attempting a Project 365 where I take at least one photo each day for the entire year.  This seemed really daunting to me last year, but I decided to give it a go this year and it honestly has been super easy so far.  I generally take at least one photo a day anyway without thinking about it.

**I’m using the Collect Photo App to keep track of my photo a day (I just pick one out of however many I took that day).  I add a little text at the bottom of the photo for some journaling and save them in the Calendar.  It looks like this:

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At the end of the year, I’ll put these photos into a Project Life App spread, print them, and slip them into the front of the Album for the year.  This is a sample of what that will look like when I get those into the spreads.  Only each photo will have some journaling below it…I think it will be cool to see the entire year at a glance with a photo a day.

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**Although I use my phone camera (I have an iPhone 6 plus–someone will ask) for a lot of my daily photo documenting, I also use my dSLR (I have a Canon 5d Mark II–someone will ask) as much as I can as well because the photos are better.  Each Sunday, I load whatever photos I’ve taken with my dSLR onto my computer, pick whichever ones I want to include in that weeks spread, put those photos into Dropbox, and then I can access those photos straight through the App (you can see how to access them on the video in the post mentioned earlier).  So not ALL the photos in these spreads are coming from a camera phone.  Some will be coming from the dSLR as well.

**I delete as I go.  Meaning–if I take a bad photo, I delete it right then.  Or, on Sundays when I sift through the photos, I delete any I don’t need as well.  I’m pretty liberal on my deleting.  I don’t need 10 photos of the same-ish thing.  This frees up space on my phone and computer and helps with the overwhelm of sifting through waaaaaay too many photos.

**This year I’m really focusing on documenting what our every day lives look like.  What we do from day-to-day.  What our daily family life is like.  What the kids do each day….  I’m pretty passionate about this kind of documenting and you can read ALL about that and learn a ton more with the Every Day Photos Guide here.

**I do my best to take the best photos I can.  These ten photo tips for your phone will make a HUGE difference in improving the photos you take with your phone.  Some of those tips will also improve the photos you take with a dSLR as well.  They’re worth reading.

**Despite my best efforts, some photos still need a little editing (usually because there’s not enough light and the photos need to be brightened).  My favorite app for editing photos in the phone is PicTapGo.  You can read about some of my favorite Photo Apps for your phone here.  I honestly do as little photo editing as possible.  I don’t enjoy it so I don’t like to spend much time there.  And truth be told, filters usually make photos look worse (in my opinion).  But often photos could use a little “lightening up”.  You can also edit your photos straight in the Project Life app which I love.  This is often all they need.  Just brighten a little, and add a little contrast and it can make a big difference to how they look when they’re printed.

**I use just ONE Project Life kit per year.  This makes the process much simpler.  I also stick with Design A for many of my layouts.  I use other layouts if I have a lot of photos I want to add on one particular page.  But I try to really simplify how many layout templates I use.  Less choices is better for me.

**I’ll be printing these pages as 12×12.  I tried the 8×8 but they’re just too small for my taste.  This is totally personal preference.  I use the 8×8 for recipe pages from the App (super love this way to save all my recipes), but for the family photo books, I’m sticking with 12×12 for now.  You can print straight through the App, OR, buy print credits from Persnickety Prints when they do a sale twice a year!  The print quality is excellent either way and the price is exceptional (you can’t even get 12×12’s from Costco for this cheap–and they are professional quality prints)

I also found this post from Becky Higgins incredibly helpful with tons of tips for staying current with family photo albums (and tips for catching up with past ones).  She’s been a scrapbooker since she came out of the womb and she knows what she’s talking about.  It’s a long post, but it’s full of a ton of really practical tips to help simplify this whole process.

A quick bit about past years and trying to “catch up”.  I’m using both the physical Project Life system AND the app to catch up with past years.  If I already have photos printed, I’m using the physical system.  If I don’t have photos printed (they’re all digital on the computer), I’m sorting through those photos on my computer, being very selective about the ones I want to use (600ish per year–some years I have close to 15,000 photos in a year so I really have to narrow these down), putting them in Dropbox, and using the App to catch up on past years.  I’m partial to the app because I can do it anywhere and I don’t have to get any “stuff” out.  So instead of getting on Facebook or other things I may otherwise do while killing time here and there, I’ll get on the app and do a few spreads for past years.  The key to this is organizing the photos into monthly folders in Dropbox.  Otherwise it’s hard to remember which photos you’ve used and which ones you haven’t.

**My advice for people just starting–pick something you LOVE and start with an album for that.  When I first started, I did an album just of Lake Powell trips we’ve taken.  I love Lake Powell.  So it was fun to print those photos off and create an album (this was before the app was around).  Then decide what you want to do next…Year-t0-year, different vacations, holidays….totally up to you.

I also recommend starting where you are.  So instead of fretting about how far behind you are, just START NOW and do this year.  And as you get the hang of it, and learn what works and doesn’t work for you, you can slowly start printing photos (or putting them in the app) from past years and working on getting those in albums.  Or, you can get your kids to help you.  This is by far one of my favorite gifts to give my kids and it takes some of the pressure off me to get photo books printed for each of them.



**YOU CAN DO THIS.  If I can do it, YOU can do it.  I promise.  You just have to have a strong enough “WHY”.  Why are you doing it??  Really, stop and come up with an answer for this.  Take time to figure out your why (good advice for ANYthing you do in life).  If your answer really truly matters to you, you’ll find a way to get this done.  You just have to PLAN time to do it, and stay consistent.  It’s hard-ish.  It takes work.  I won’t lie about that.  But anything worth doing is hard.  And it’s also worth it.

**Last tip (that I got from Becky who got it from the great Stephen Covey):  BEGIN WITH THE END IN MIND.  What do you want the end product to look like?  Why are you doing it?  Who is it for?  What stories do you want to tell?  What do you want your kids to know about your family life?  What do you want your ancestors to know?  What’s important to you day-to-day?  Think about the END product and work your way back to the start.  And then, START.  This really helped me get a better vision of how I wanted to document our family through photos.

That’s probably enough info for one day.  The thing I’d emphasize the most with all of this–just START.  Start somewhere.  Anywhere.  Be more intentional about the type of photos you take and make an effort to get them off your phone/camera and into your home where your family can enjoy them.  It’s SO worth it.

Questions?  Comment below or as always, feel free to e-mail me at [email protected]!!

What a start.

Wow.  2016 didn’t start the way I had anticipated and planned.  Although I think the concept of New Years Eve and staying up until midnight to ring in a New Year is kinda weird, I do look forward to new years and the feeling of fresh starts.

Last year I started writing down my goals and found a lot of great resources to help me make, set, and keep better goals.

We spent New Years Eve in Laketown by Bear Lake in Utah.  It was cold (-6 degrees at night) but beautiful and nice to get away from the house.  We spent time with family and friends in a quaint little house filled with 6 adults and 11 kids under the age of 11.  It was crazy-town.

When we got home, I had high hopes of working on my goals (narrowing them down and getting them on paper), continuing with my effort to de-clutter the entire house using the Kon Mari method, and work on some of the health and fitness goals I’m planning for this year.

And then I got strep throat.  A day after feeling better from that (strep hurts–bad), I got a nasty stomach virus along with two of my kids.  Since then, someone in our family has been sick for the last 17 days.  Once I started feeling better, each member of the family worked their way through the bug and we’re still trying to fully recover.

Friday I went skiing with a friend to get out of the house and regroup after two very long weeks.  After 5 or 6 runs down the mountain, I got crazy dizzy, light-headed and super nauseous.  I ended up in the Lodge in a puddle of a mess and begged my friend to take a few more runs on her own (ski tickets are anything but cheap and we had been so excited for our day together–super frustrating).  I slept on-and-off on a table in the lodge while she got herself stuck on the edge of the cliff and was lucky to make it down in one piece. By the time I made it home I was a mess.

After consulting with my dad (who is a doctor), it appears I possibly have an inner ear infection which makes you dizzy and nauseous anytime you move your head.  It’s less than ideal.  And quite frustrating after weeks of family illness.

But.  I can’t put off all the things I want/need to do any longer.  And being here, on the blog, is a high priority for me this year.  I love this space and the opportunity it gives me to connect with all of you.  So I’m holding my head really still and grateful for the medication that seems to be helping.

Onward and Upward.  Sort of.

I thought I’d share the top 5 most popular posts from 2015 in case anyone missed some of these, starting with the 5th most popular and working our way down.

 

Number Five:  How much do you weigh  This is a series about how I lost all my baby weight after four kids.  I’ll actually be re-visiting this series in the days to come so stay tuned.

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Number Four: The Project Life App. A game changer.  If you’ve been around long, you know my love for the Project Life App and how it’s helping me catch up and stay current with documenting our family through photos.  Later this week I’ll be talking about how I’m documenting 2016 and how I’m catching up on previous years of photos.

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Number Three: Ten Phone Photography Tips that will change everything about your photos.  If you don’t have this free eBook yet, I think you’ll like it.  Ten simple tips to help you make photos from your phone look better.  Although I’ll always advocate for using better dSLR cameras when we can, more and more of us are documenting our daily lives with our phones.  These ten tips can dramatically improve those photos.

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Number Two: Books that inspire better more meaningful living.  Every one of these books is worth reading.  Some of my favorites of all time.  You can also find more book suggestions in the “worth reading” tab in the menu bar above.

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And the NUMBER ONE post from all of last year:  How to help someone in need for ANY reason.   This post took a ton of time and I had dozens of people help me and give me suggestions for this one.  It’s one of the best posts I’ve ever put together and incredibly helpful.  I refer to it often when trying to do things for other people.  Tons of suggestions and ideas on things to DO and GIVE to people who are in need for whatever reason.  Definitely worth checking out.

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As always, THANK YOU for being here.  For your support.  For coming back over and over again to read the things I write. I am nothing but grateful.  2016 started out rough, but I’m planning on a lot of great things this year.

 

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It’s ALWAYS your turn. Do what you should do.

I was having a conversation with a friend the other day. We were talking about work and the possibility of working outside the home, or even volunteering somewhere. Her kids are all in school and she was looking for something to do. But as we talked, she admitted she was scared. Scared of the unknown. Scared of uncertainty. Scared of working and learning a new job. Scared of trying. Scared of failing. She’s been raising kids for the past 15 years and now she’s looking to do something else and she’s being held back by fear. It was almost as if she didn’t feel worthy or qualified to find a job or do some of the things she’s always wanted to do.

This conversation got me thinking about a book I read recently called “What to do when it’s your turn (and it’s always your turn)” by Seth Godin. Oh my word I dig anything Seth Godin writes. This photo of the first page sums up the point of the book (it’s a good one):

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We live in a world where possibilities are endless. And we no longer have to wait for someone to pick us–for someone to tell us it’s our turn to do whatever it is we want to do. We don’t need permission. We get to do what we want to do. It’s OUR turn. Not because someone picks us or told us it was our turn, but because it’s always our turn. Inherently we each have the capability to do things. To “speak up, stand out, solve an interesting problem, write sing, invent, create….”

One of the hurdles we can face when trying to do things, accomplish things (ANY “things”) is being in the mood.

A similar scenario like this plays out in the book. Imagine you’re having a day. You know, a day. Anything that could go wrong has gone wrong. The weather is bad, you think you’re getting a cold, a friend stood you up for dinner, and your kids have been rotten all day.

You’re feeling entitled to the bad mood you’re developing.

But then a good friend you haven’t heard from for awhile calls. Just to say hello and how much you mean to her. You walk in your front door and your husband has dinner fixed and the house picked up. And your kids are bathed and ready for bed.

After such a scenario Godin asks:

“How’s your mood now?

Here’s the real question: if all it takes to turn a lousy day into a great one is a little dinner party and a phone call, why would you ever choose to have a lousy day? Even better, why would you let someone else have a lousy one?

The people who need you need you to fix their mood, even when you don’t feel like it. And we need you to learn to fix your own mood so you can be the one who fixes the rest of us. The mood-fixer is a precious resource, and you can learn how to be that resource.

Do what you should do. Your mood will follow.”

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I think of that phrase nearly every day. When I’m not in the mood to do something. Something I know I want to do (or at least I want the end results that come from doing certain things) but I can’t quite get in the mood to do it. “Do what you should do. Your mood will follow.”

Sometimes I just have to repeat it over and over in my head as I plunge ahead on making things happen in my life.

It’s our turn to DO those things we’ve wanted to do. No excuses. Face the fears. Make things happen. Get our mood to follow our actions if need be.

It’s your turn. It’s always your turn.

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Games your family will love

Every year on Christmas Eve we give the kids new games to play together as a family.  We stay home on Christmas Eve and it can end up being a very long day for kids who are excited for the next day to come.  Several years ago we started letting them open a few games Christmas Eve morning and they spend much of the day playing those.  And continue to play them throughout the year.  Huge win.

Here are a few of our family’s favorite games:

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This game is easy enough for my 5 year old to play on his own, but fun enough I don’t want to die a quick and painless death while playing it with little kids.  You know what I mean.  It’s fast-paced and very straight-forward.  Great game for the whole family to play together.

 

Clue The Classic Edition

Games your family will love

 

I played this game as a child so I’m a little nostalgic about it.  My kids love it just as much as I did.  Colonel Mustard in the kitchen with the wrench.

Pictionary

Games your family will love

I dare say this is my MOST favorite game.  I love this game.  Love. It.  I’m terrible at drawing, but for some reason, this game is just fun.  My kids are still a little young to play this, but you’d be surprise how well a 5 year old can do.  We played this once as a family on Thanksgiving (boys against girls) and had to stop.  It got a tiny bit intense.  No one threw the game board across the room (like my brother used to do when we were kids) so I guess it wasn’t that bad.

When we play this game, we do “All Play” every time so every team draws every time and whichever team gets it first gets to roll the dice.  It’s a little more fast-paced this way and far more fun.

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Games your family will love

An oldie but a goodie.  This is a good stocking stuffer gift as well.

Guess Who Game

Games your family will love

I also played this as a kid.  This is a good one to use for some one-on-one time with kids.  Time like that is precious around a house with 4 kids.  This is also a great game to take in the car when we go on road trips.

Sequence for Kids

Games your family will love

This is a great game to introduce kids to the idea of strategy when playing games.

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Games your family will love

This game is a little slower-paced than some but can be pretty hilarious depending on who you play it with.

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Games your family will love

Especially hilarious to play with younger kids.  For some reason we laugh a lot when we play this. Must be the way my kids ask questions.

 

This year we’re adding Operation , Pie Face Bounce-Off , and Battleship for the kids to open on Christmas Eve.

I’ve also heard Ticket To Ride is a must have.  Our youngest kid likes to ruin most attempts we make at playing games together so we’ll wait until he’s a little older to add this one.

Anyone have any games their family loves?

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